LETS THINK OF OUR FUTURE

 QUESTIONS WE SHOULD BE ASKING OUR PRESENT SELF CONCERNING OUR FUTURE SELF.

Its true that our twenties do matter.why…..because we are at the peak of moulding our future.There are no possible right answers to our questions i.e Where you should live,work or settle down.

No math can answer these questions,which means there are no right or wrong answers to these questions but only your answer matters.

Our twenties are a great time to listen and be honest with yourself.It is also a great time to have a conversation with your future self.We tend to ignore and neglect our future self because of some sort of failure and belief or imagination.

i should create a picture of how my future would look like.And this should be something i want badly for its a preparation i’m making.I should have an idea of that ideal career i want to involve myself in,that perfect house location.my ideal ride,audi Q7 to be precise.How many kids i want.The type of husband i’d like.School my kids would go to.A mortgage estimation.its a whole thing that one should start involving themselves in at this early age.

We hardly believe we can get to 35 or 40.Our brains think about our future self similarly to how we think about strangers.Whats the first thing that rings to your mind when you meet a stranger?uuuuhm well,i can say nothing of good can ring to your mind.you’ll either be blank about them or create controversies of what you’d think of them.And i bet they wont be positive ones…well why?because you dont know them and you also dont want to create a room to be part of what they have within them.Life defining process takes place at the age of 35. Before we get here,we ought to have already created defining moments like:

Life defining process takes place at the age of 35. As we get here,we ought to have already created defining moments like:

1. What do i look like?
2. where do i live?
3. what do i do for work?
4. Do i enjoy the work?
5. Is it meaningful?
6. Who do i come home to?
7. How is the relationship?
8. Am i happy?

The questions are so many that i cant publish all of them.How will i make everything i think of work out for me?We are afraid to be asked tough questions.we tend to run away from them by all means possible,forgetting that these same questions can help us get to where we want to get.These same questions will really push us to getting what we want to get done at the right time.